Recently a school administrator, working toward setting up her high school’s leadership education program, asked me, “Should we spend much time in defining leadership? “
Typically, a third grade teacher would make sure that her students first knew the meanings of all the hard words before she taught the story; so also would a tenth grade history teacher. Agreeing first on definitions enjoys a front-of-the-class, even a classical, prominence as the most appropriate way to proceed. It was a good question.
Despite this, my off-the-cuff answer was, “No.” To the raised interrogative eyebrow of my very thoughtful fellow educator, I continued, “Researchers and academics have been batting this question around for over a decade without agreeing on an answer. Asking the board, or the administration, or the faculty to come up with its own well articulated definition seemed to be a fool’s errand bound for failure, and a task which would consume so many meeting hours that all the wind needed for the sails to drive the ship forward would be sucked dry. The project would self-asphyxiate.”
And then on second thought…. something more is needed.
Driving home, though I stood by my original answer, I also remembered an exercise I used several times with both students and teachers. Everyone was given a couple of 3x5 cards; on each they were asked to write the name of someone they considered a leader. I introduced the topic by noting that there was likely to be a wide range of opinions; in fact to spur outside-of-the-box thinking, I encouraged inclusion of names they could defend as leaders even though the others might not agree. After looking over shoulders to determine the full landscape of selections, I sometimes laced the pack with some controversial individuals such as Hitler, Picasso, or Joan of Arc in order to draw out key discussion topics: can a person who caused others to murder thousands be considered a leader; can someone who works alone but influenced millions be a leader; and are leaders only men.
This exercise did not intend on scoping out every nook and cranny of leadership, not to define leadership, but rather to bring out existing notions, to raise issues, and to give time for participants to consider and appreciate opposing points of view. Among a group of faculty, one extraordinarily respected teacher said that Hitler was not a leader, “Real leaders are concerned about bettering the world.” Interestingly, among students at a Jewish high school, no one gainsaid the idea of Hitler as leader. One Jewish student even suggested that Hitler might even have thought that his actions bettered his own group and, if so, he might have considered himself good even while Jews thought of him as evil. Regularly I am happily surprised at the insights of pre-collegiate students --- and by their naiveté; they had no idea how deep their thoughts sometimes ran. Almost every group with whom I met felt that Picasso deserved to be called a leader, but of a very different sort. One student pointed out that artists led with ideas rather than with authority. One group of eighth graders, in a very male dominant culture, stated adamantly that only men could be leaders; a position fiercely contended by the girls in the class. I wondered if this was the boys’ real position, or a pigtail-dipping taunt to the already very mature looking young ladies.
In another class I rephrased the question and asked them to write down leaders who they most admired. Every boy in this independent school, unknown to the others, listed his own father. I was astonished. Some pointed to the position their dads held at work; all pointed out their father’s importance to the family – and to them.
With a group of high school freshman in a required leadership course, I knew that I had do something that was much more concrete. In history they were studying ancient history so I gave each student a one-page biography of Hannibal and a map of his war routes. After they had read this and I had answered clarifying questions, I asked the class if they considered Hannibal a leader? This approach led to some interesting observations. They agreed about Hannibal’s reputation as a leader, but as one student succinctly pointed out; he was a leader of the Carthaginians but only an enemy-leader to the Romans. Some struggled with whether Hannibal was a leader since he ultimately failed. Was he a leader when he died, how about when he was a baby? They resolved their own questions; leaders did not have to lead every day of their life, and leading did not depend on success, though this position was hotly debated.
Each of these approaches gave me the chance to ask leading questions, especially if the discussion continued for a few days. For the second day I asked students to write down the most important conclusions the class had reached the day before. Comparisons of student reflections re-awakened the discussion (while also helping them practice separating out main ideas) and brought us closer to a few agreed upon basic understandings. On the last day, I also liked to ask students to describe the history of our discussion – in this way I got them to focus on process. I also encouraged complaints. When students explain their complaints, they think more deeply about process. Sometimes they even come up with methods that might work better. It helped me engage with my students about my goals and my methods.
Building on their observations about leadership, I guided the group toward seeing some basic foundational conclusions: leader and leadership have different meanings; leaders exist within a group not in isolation; leaders take action; some leaders defend the status quo, and others lead to make change; we know leaders by what they do; leaders are not always successful, nor are they always good for all; leadership is what the leader does to lead; leaders have an influence over others; and that the leadership requirements for one situation might be very different than the skill set required for another. I pointed out that each student’s comments made a difference for the whole; more often the one who led the discussion and moved it forward was not the designated leader (me) but class members.
So, back to the initial question, Should a school spend much time defining leadership, or even leader? My answer – spend only enough time to simmer the idea, but do so without destroying the individuality of each flavor.
A few years ago I heard a very well regarded professional in the field of leadership education tell a large conference tell us that though he could not define leader purely from a definition, he was sure he would know a leader when he saw one. Leadership is an even more slippery eel; suffice it say that the leadership of any leader is the sum total of her or his actions necessary to cause others to act.
Sometimes the concept of leadership is far too overwhelming for high school students; it is much easier to ask what did the leader do to lead? Then the question yields practical answers. “Leadering” is far more concrete and therefore far easier for the teen’s evolving mind to grasp than the generalized concept of leadership. Despite Plato’s best intents we still live in his cave; bumping into chairs teaches us more about what they are and what they do than contemplating any deep definition to cover all situations.